It has been two years in my college life,
and I have deeply felt the differences between the senior high school and the
college. One of them is that the bond between senior and junior in the college
is not as deep as the bond in the senior high school. My senior high school is
a very conservative school, which means that my school has many rules and
traditions. One of them is the senior and the junior which is so called 學姊學妹制 in Chinese. When we entered the school, the first thing that the
senior taught us is that we had to greet to the senior like 學姊好學長好as soon as we saw them. If we didn’t, we may be labeled as an
impolite junior who didn’t respect them in the senior’s eyes. At the beginning,
it was hard for us to get used to this tradition and we often felt a little shy
to greet to the senior who we were not familiar with because we didn’t do it in
the junior high school. So, sometimes during the break time, we rather stay at
the classroom than going out. Once, the senior in the second grade even came to
our class and said that the third grade senior didn’t satisfy our manner and
hoped that we could improve. Of course, we did it and felt more and more comfortable
to greet to the senior in the hallway. But, as the time went by, we thought
that it’s necessary for us to have this tradition because it enhanced the bond
between the senior and the junior. Unlike in the junior high school, we had a
close relationship with the senior in the senior high school. Moreover, when we
encountered some academic problem, we could turn to the senior for help instead
of feeling helpless. As a result, when we became the senior, we also taught our
junior this tradition and wished this tradition could pass on to future
generations.
Thanks for sharing this. But I think it is often the diverse and eventful life styles of college students from different areas of Taiwan that makes bonding difficult. By the way, what did you read to make you write such reflection?
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