What type of bully you are?
In this
week’s research, I’ve searched some information about what type of bully in the
society. Specifically, there are the Actor, the Wincer and the Sybil.
First, the Actor, this type of
person isn't always a bully, perhaps they're only a bully behind the boss's
back, and when you're in the room they're sweet as pie (Janine
Popick CMO). It’s the not as obvious as you can observe in
the real context, however, this kind of person is the most common. For example,
in the university, there are a lot of people who smile at you in person, but
they stab you in the back. Sometimes, this kind of bullies are formed in a
group, cursing others secretly. Second,
the Wincer, this bully walks the halls
with a mean-face, doesn't smile and says more without words than if they opened
their mouths(Janine Popick CMO).For
instance, some classmates always act like that, without considering others’
feeling at all. Especially, some so-called “Queen Bees” at school. Just like
some mean girls in the classic movie – Mean Girl, which was led by Lindsay
Lohan. Those bullies would gather together, performing mean face toward others
in pursuit of looing down their classmates. Third, the Sybil, when Sybil is
happy and not stressed there's not a bully in sight! Say something they don't
want to hear or deal with? The bully comes out and comes out big time pie (Janine
Popick CMO). I assert
that many people were suffered from this kind of bullies or even being a part
of them.
For
me, I was once the Sybil, but I was
not aware of that them. As I was in the elementary school, I was a popular and
characteristically charming leader in the class, always ordering my classmates
to do things I didn't like to do at all. Frankly,
I remembered so vividly that I had forced one of my classmates to commit a
trouble which was not made by him. Since I was a
talented student, and a talented student was not allowed to make mistakes!
After oppressing a scapegoat to do so, I didn’t know I caused great harm to
that classmate, still, I remained arrogant and wore my perfect mask for a
while. After that, I had become worse and worse until I met another bully who
did some terrible things to me in the senior high school. (the same play as in
the movie, Mean Girls)
From the video, I AM HOLLY, I found that there were a lot of people like Holly,
feeling hopeless and depressed, but us adults are giving nothing to assist the
kids to get rid of these problems. Bully is a serious issue which is raging
with the upcoming social medias.
Unfortunately,
if the kid is not as fortunate as possible, he/she might get into the deepest
hole just like the character in the video, Anyone
Can Be a Bully. Every minor detail might cause attrition to kids, if
teachers/parents aren’t aware of kids’ mental condition, they might lose them
for good. This is not what I’m willing to witness! Thus, in the further
research, I will explore more solution and helpful ways to help the victims and
also come up with more ideas on how to stop bullies from harming others.
Got Bullies? Here's How to Deal with Them
By Janine Popick CMO, Dasheroo; founder, VerticalResponse
By Janine Popick CMO, Dasheroo; founder, VerticalResponse
I AM HOLLY - An Anti-Bullying Film
by Bedford High School
Anyone
Can Be a Bully
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